Union County Residents on the Autism Spectrum Share Their Stories

(above)  Robbie Matos after finishing the New York City Marathon in 2019.

Union County Residents on the Autism Spectrum Share Their Stories

Community Access Unlimited

Balancing work, school, a social life, and hobbies can be a daunting task for many adults, but for those on the autism spectrum, it can present unique challenges. Two Union County residents shared how they have found support and success with the assistance of Community Access Unlimited (CAU), a nonprofit organization dedicated to empowering individuals with disabilities.

Tyler O’Neill, a 32-year-old resident of Scotch Plains, shared how his involvement with CAU’s Academy of Continuing Education (ACE) and the CAU Community Players theater troupe has been transformative.

“That’s when I developed my confidence,” O’Neill said of his first leading role as Shrek in “Shrek the Musical” in 2015. Set to perform in his 10th musical with CAU this summer, O’Neill added, “I feel that whatever I want in my future, anything is possible.” 

O’Neill is gearing up to play Patrick Star in “The SpongeBob Musical,” CAU Community Players’ 13th annual production, scheduled for July 19, 20, and 21, 2024 at Cicarell Academy in Elizabeth. Formed in 2012, the inclusive theater troupe welcomes performers of all abilities. Tickets are available now at: our.show/spongebobcau

(above) CAU member, Robbie Matos and CAU Director of Educational Services, Robin Morris-Marano at the Academy of Continuing Education in Roselle.

O’Neill first heard about the theater program as a student at ACE, where he currently attends groups in personal finance, reading, and art. ACE, short for the Academy of Continuing Education, offers a variety of continuing education courses with flexible options for adults with developmental disabilities.

In addition to working part-time at a grocery store, O’Neill is also continuing his arts education with a new challenge by enrolling in online gaming design courses. His goal is to learn more about digital art with a goal of creating video games. 

Reflecting on his journey, O’Neill shared, “Focus on what you want in your future and don’t worry— all that matters is that you work hard at something you’re passionate about. Just don’t quit your day job just yet.” 

(above)  Tyler O’Neill stars as Nathan Detroit in the 2023 CAU Community Players production of “Guys and Dolls.”

According to the CDC, about one in 36 children is diagnosed with an autism spectrum disorder (ASD), and more than 2% of adults in the U.S. are estimated to have ASD. April marks Autism Acceptance Month, with a focus on igniting positive change in the lives of individuals with autism and their families.

Robbie Matos, a 28-year-old resident of Summit, has found his passion through sports, excelling in Special Olympics basketball and soccer teams, and participating in 10 marathons. Despite his busy schedule, Matos finds time to attend CAU’s Academy of Continuing Education three days a week while actively seeking new job opportunities.

Robbie emphasized the importance of equality for individuals with autism, stating, “We should all be treated equally, even those people who have autism.” He shared his desires for the future to pursue higher education and secure employment. 

Deborah Matos, Robbie’s mother, expressed gratitude for the support her son has received. “We’ve been happy to see all the successes we’ve seen with Robbie,” she said. “He’s gone from not talking [as a child] to being very verbal and social.” 

She acknowledged the critical role of CAU’s programs in Robbie’s development, including his work with a behaviorist. CAU employs a team of Board Certified Behavior Analyst-licensed behaviorists who work with individuals on a behavioral support plan built around person-centered values and family needs.

“His behaviorist has been fantastic- [he] is very helpful for Robbie, providing a good sounding board and helping him challenge himself-it’s been terrific having him on board.”

Robbie described participating in one CAU event as a milestone moment for him—reading a selection of the “I Have a Dream” speech at CAU’s 2023 celebration honoring the 60th anniversary of Martin Luther King Jr.’s iconic speech.

“It was a great opportunity for him to do something that he typically wouldn’t do,” Deborah said. “Remembering where he was when he first started to where he is now and representing the organization and commemorating Dr. King’s legacy—I was really excited.” 

CAU reaffirms its commitment to empowering individuals with autism to achieve their full potential and lead fulfilling lives.

For more information about CAU and its programs, visitcaunj.org

About Community Access Unlimited Community Access Unlimited (CAU), celebrating 45 years in 2024, supports people with disabilities in achieving real lives in the community. CAU provides support and gives voice to adults and youth who traditionally have little support and no voice in society. CAU helps people with housing, life skills, employment, money management, socialization and civic activities. CAU also supports opportunities for advocacy through training in assertiveness, decision-making and civil rights. CAU currently serves more than 3,000 individuals and families, with the number served growing each year. For more information about CAU and its services, contact us by phone at 908.354.3040, online at caunj.org or by mail at 80 West Grand Street, Elizabeth, NJ 07202.

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